Tortured by her Afghan husband, and she is not scared to look in the mirror
A young woman who was brutally
tortured in Afghanistan by her husband after she tried to escape their
abusive forced marriage is on the road to recovery as doctors continue
to rebuild her face. Aesha
Mohammadzai, who believes she is 21 or 22, moved to the US two years ago
after fleeing the war-torn country and is now six months into her
surgery at a hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. Brave
Aesha - who has never attended school or celebrated her birthday -
insisted yesterday that she is no longer scared to look at herself in
the mirror, as her treatment reaches the halfway stage.
'I don't care,’ she told CNN. ‘Everybody has some kind of problem. At the beginning, I was very scared. I was scared to look at my face in the mirror. ‘I
was scared to think what will happen in the future to me. But now I'm
not scared anymore. Now I know the meaning of life, how to live. There, I
couldn't understand how to live.'
Aesha’s story was first told in August
2010 by Time magazine, who published a harrowing cover photo of her -
horrifying people around the world and symbolising the oppression of
Afghan women. When she was
12, her father promised her in marriage to a Taliban fighter to pay a
debt. She was handed over to his family who abused her and forced her to
sleep in the stable with the animals. But
when Aesha attempted to flee, she was caught and her nose and ears were
hacked off by her husband as punishment. Left for dead in the
mountains, she crawled to her grandfather's house.
She managed to get to a US medical
facility, where medics cared for her for 10 weeks, and then was taken to
a secret shelter in Kabul before she was flown to the U.S. by a charity
to stay with a family. Nowadays
Aesha still prefers watching Bollywood films rather than American TV.
She arrived in Maryland 16 months after she came to the US and had spent
time in California and New York. Aesha
is being treated at the Walter Reed National Military Medical Centre in
Bethesda, which was arranged for her by the office of outgoing U.S.
Representative Roscoe Bartlett of Maryland. Couple
Mati and Jamila Arsala have been caring for Aesha in Maryland, and they
have a 15-year-old daughter in Miena Ahmadzai, who has become good
friends with her adopted older sister.
But Aesha will look far worse before
she stars to look better, and her forehand already has major swelling,
while darkened and drooping flesh is currently where her nose once was,
reported CNN. She was given a
prosthetic nose at first, but full plastic surgery had to be delayed
because it was thought she was still not emotionally stable to cope with
the painful and lengthy surgery required. Aesha
was said to have displayed volatile mood swings in the past -
oscillating between violent tantrums and displaying deep affection to
people around her - so the surgery is a huge milestone. ‘What
happened, it's part of me, part of my life and it's all the time in my
mind and with me,’ she told CNN. ‘But I have to live, and I have to
love.’
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